Many years ago my life abruptly took a turn for the worse.  I was married, successful, working, and looking forward to a wonderful life of having everything I had ever dreamed of when all of a sudden my life literally fell to pieces!  I went from married, expecting a child, well looked after, optimistic and naïve to being unmarried, loosing my child, not looked after, depressed, poor and sick overnight.   In one short day I had lost it all and I knew I had only one way to go.


Nobody shared and nobody cared so I ended up so far down I couldn’t get any lower, so yes, the only way to go was up but I had no idea how to get there!

I knew that the first step up was to find a job, or apply for welfare.  I put my worthlessness aside for a moment and amazingly, as I was on my way to apply for welfare. I stopped and put in an application for a job, and to my surprise I did get a job working for the Social Services Department, the people who would have given me welfare.  I worked as a file clerk and then as a receptionist in a place that housed children who had been removed from their homes.  This is where I met my Angel.

My Angels name was Michael…..and to this day this gentle, frightened little soul is still with me in spirit.  Michael had been taken from an abusive home, and was just looking for someone to help him to feel safe and loved if even for a brief moment.  In reality we were both looking for the same thing! He didn’t talk, he didn’t need to because everything from fear, abandonment, helplessness, hopelessness, despair, to unconditional love, acceptance and safety radiated from him to me in a second.

My job was working night shift answering the telephone.

My first night on the job Michael walked into the office, sat down on my knee and without saying a word laid his head on my shoulder and remained there for several hours with me.  This is when I realized he was the angel that I had asked for to help me find direction in my life.  After several shifts with Michael sitting quietly on my lap, his head on my shoulder I was called into the supervisors office and chastised for having this wonderful little angel with me while I was answering telephones.  It was not the proper thing to do!  What this Angel helped me to come to terms with in my life was that I did have a purpose.  My purpose was to work with myself, understand my losses, understand myself and become a helper for those who needed help.  He pointed out to me in his silence that we do not always need words, what we need is sharing, caring, love, understanding and acceptance.  When no one else in my life seemed to care, he was there for me, just as I was there for him.   When the supervisor chastised me for having him with me, I instantly knew that these people who were supposed to be the caregivers and caretakers of the human spirit, had absolutely no idea of how to do that and I realized that I had much work to do in this lifetime to make our world a safer and healthier world for all.  I ended up in tears and knew that I had to leave my job and begin the long process of self learning in order to become the unique individual I am today.  The day after Michael was moved out of the Center I quit my job and moved on.

The self learning coming from my encounter with an angel named Michael, has taken me to many places in my life that I am not proud of, however, each of these places that I have been have strengthened my knowledge of the human being, and have now brought me to the place where I can say “I am“, and be proud to be who I truly am Mentally, Physically, Emotionally and Spiritually!  I am me!

Thank you Michael, you didn’t have wings on the outside, but you sure helped me learn to fly and own my wings on this special day!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”


When I first started the Soul Writings blog, I wrote the following statement as a thought for today:

“As a child I learned a lot of things that I find necessary to unlearn as an adult!”

When I wrote that I believed that I would eventually have it all unlearned and be ready to move forward with all of my new learnings and they would be the right learnings for me to be able to look forward with for the rest of my life and never look back.

I can now add onto this and say:

What I learned yesterday, I find necessary to unlearn today in order to move forward with my life right here, right now, in this moment.

As my beliefs change, my perception changes, my values change and what I need to learn is a continual process in my life.

Now, to me that is exciting, and I need to always trust what I know from my inner being  and stand up for what I believe and know is right for me in this moment.

This is learning, teaching and growing and what a wonderful place to be!

Peace, love, light and blessings

“White Eagle”


The paths we take are not always paved, clear or are they in  black and white.

They may seem very bumpy at times, we may not be sure of where we are going, how we are getting there, or who we may meet along the way.

These things are  not for us to know at times!

We may have to be lead down the not so smooth road, to learn what we need to learn in this life time, so we do not repeat the same learning in the next.

Once you acknowledge and learn from the experience, on the less traveled road, you will move on from that experience, as you grow and learn from it.

It is on Gods/Creators time.  All we can do is learn from it, and move on. It may mean:

  • Leaving friends and family behind.
  • Setting boundaries within and around us.
  • Leaving where we live, or
  • Journeying across the country.

all of these hold lessons for us to learn!

You may choose to ignore these lessons and keep doing what you are doing, but you will only continue to repeat the same patterns over and over again until you decide to listen, learn..and move on from it… is an experience that you were meant to grow and learn from……~

Pam Forseth- Spiritual Healer♥


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